Metro Detroit · Officiant · Writer · Vow Coach
I Do by Marisa
Your story, told with intention. Timeless in feeling. Never templated.
Story is the signature.
Your story, told with intention. Timeless in feeling. Never templated.
Story is the signature.
This work started with a simple ask: officiate a friend's wedding. What I didn't expect was how much I would care about getting it right — about telling their story in a way that felt true, thoughtful, and completely their own.
Since then, that's become the foundation of everything I do.
A ceremony isn't a formality. It's the most personal story you'll ever tell. The kind that lingers. The kind that's felt in the room. It's creative. It's connective. It's a love story. Written with care. Designed to sound like you.
I take the time to get to know each couple — their full story, what makes them them. I'm drawn to the in-between moments — the way people speak to each other, the shared humor, the quiet details that define a relationship.
I listen closely. I ask the questions other people skip.
I write ceremonies that reflect it all back — natural, real, and completely yours.
Not just a ceremony — an experience of being known, heard, and reflected back with care. Every ceremony is written from scratch. Whether it's a full room or something more intimate, the work is the same: thoughtful, personal, and entirely yours.
From your first inquiry to your final vow, I handle every word. We'll collaborate on tone, story, and structure — so when the day arrives, all you have to do is show up and feel it.
I write the complete ceremony; your chosen officiant delivers it. Every word is personalized, rehearsed, and ready. You get the story — they get the confidence.
Whether you're a first-time officiant or want to say something meaningful, I'll help you find your words, rehearse your delivery, and show up with confidence on the day.
From workbooks to live coaching sessions, I help you move through the blank page and into words that are honest, personal, and truly yours.
Photography: Matthew Moore
“She gave our love a language.”— Gabrielle & Darius
“Every word felt like it was written just for us.”— Heather & Brandon
“There is absolutely no one better.”— Nick & Hannah
“My grandmother said she did better than any bishop she’s ever seen.”— Nick Ayoub
“Finding the right officiant felt daunting — but meeting Marisa truly felt like the stars aligned.”— Darian & Gabrielle
“She made everyone laugh, and you felt in on the couple’s inside jokes!”— Catherine O’Gorman
“She gave our love a language.”— Gabrielle & Darius
“Every word felt like it was written just for us.”— Heather & Brandon
“There is absolutely no one better.”— Nick & Hannah
“My grandmother said she did better than any bishop she’s ever seen.”— Nick Ayoub
Contract, deposit, date held. Then I ask one simple question: what's your vibe? Hands-off or involved at every step — both are welcome.
I want to know your story well enough to tell it. A Google Form, phone call, or voice notes give the most honest, personal reflection.
I take the pieces of your story, add my craft, and write a ceremony that could only ever be yours. Then I send it for review — or not.
Rounds of edits and tone tweaks — or opt out and let me refine it solo. Completely your call.
Send me your story and trust me completely. You won't see the script until the day.
Review it once, make a few tweaks, and call it done. Most couples land here.
Multiple rounds, story swaps, line-by-line. You know what you want and I'm here for it.
Just let me know your vibe once we commit — there's no wrong answer.
Start by reaching out through the contact form on the Connect page. After you inquire, I'll share a detailed guide outlining my services and investment. If it feels like a fit, you can reply and we'll move forward with next steps from there.
Weddings, elopements, and vow renewals — all written from scratch and delivered with heart. I also offer script-only services if a friend or family member is officiating, along with 1:1 coaching for anyone speaking during the ceremony.
Yes — I'm ordained through the Universal Life Church and legally authorized to officiate weddings across the U.S. If your ceremony is out of state, I'm happy to confirm any local requirements.
Absolutely. I'm available for ceremonies near and far — simply share your location and I'll provide a custom travel quote.
I share detailed service and investment information after you reach out. This allows you to review everything clearly before deciding whether to move forward — and helps ensure we're aligned before scheduling time together.
Yes — rehearsal attendance is available as an add-on. It's not always necessary, but if you want that extra layer of calm and clarity, I'm happy to be there. We'll talk through what makes the most sense for your day.
Absolutely. Whether you're writing your own vows or having a friend officiate, I offer everything from guided workbooks to live coaching and script support. Many ceremony packages also include vow resources.
Always. All love is welcome here. My work is inclusive, affirming, and always tailored to you and your story.
I recommend booking 3–6 months out for full-service ceremonies, and at least 2 weeks in advance for script-only or vow support. If your timeline is shorter, feel free to reach out — I'll do my best to accommodate when possible.
After you submit an inquiry, you'll receive a guide outlining my services, approach, and investment. Take some time to review it, and if it feels aligned, you can reply to move forward. I'm intentional about next steps so our time together is meaningful from the start.
I work with couples to create ceremonies that feel thoughtful, personal, and rooted in story. This form gives me a sense of your vision and ensures we're aligned before we connect.
After you inquire, you'll receive an overview of my services and investment. If it feels like the right fit, I'll follow up with next steps.
I review all inquiries personally. If it feels like a good fit, I'll be in touch with next steps.
